Points as a free member 😕

Is there a free way to get points as a free member? Because it seems like I do everything this site says to get points but I never receive them?.. I have had gold membership before and it cost me 40$_ Emilia:I am in the United States and I was at a car dealership with my [...]
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Arielle:
I put a lot of effort into my work, working my tail off, doing some heavy lifting to gain the respect, gain credibility & prove myself to the guys.
(11 October 2019)

Arielle:
I have been treated as an equal, I grew up with a lot of brothers & sisters, I feel comfortable working along side guys.
(11 October 2019)

Arielle:
I've been working in a male dominated field of work for several months, out of the 50 employees I'm the only female.
(11 October 2019)

Johna:
What would you do if this guy wanted to date you?
(11 October 2019)

Johna:
What is a nice way to reject him?
(11 October 2019)

Johna:
Any girls who think this is fine?
(11 October 2019)

Johna:
I felt like a second option, so I didnt want to date him.
(11 October 2019)

Johna:
Alot of PDA and they went all the way (even in a very short period of time) Anyways, AFTER he breaks up with her he starts texting me to try and hang out.
(11 October 2019)

Johna:
He dated this girl while we were hanging out with mutual friends and I was there as well.
(11 October 2019)

Johna:
Then he started dating some girl who ended up dumping him.
(11 October 2019)